
Here's this poll (translation from Russian):
Which movie of the trilogy you like most of all?
FotR 50 20.75%
TTT 35 14.52%
RoTK 48 19.92%
Can't say, it's all one big movie for me 105 43.57%
Other 3 1.24%
Total: 241 votes 100%
No, we are not outcasts for preferring it.
Now to the topic. I liked TTT most of all because it was, I thought, the best put together movie out of all three, with the biggest character development. And it moved me the most.
I really can't explain why, because I see flaws in this movie, and I agree with folks on this thread pointing them out. But I also see similar or bigger flaws and inconsistencies in FotR and especially RotK, so I think it's the question of which flaws are more irritating for different people.
I didn't like theatrical FotR at all. I was especially disappointed with Frodo who looked like a child and not as a young man, and who had no individuality except reaction to the Ring. I hated Merry and Pip being made into clowns. And don’t even get me started on the reasons for Sam, Merry and Pippin to join Frodo. Ugh.
Then we had badly executed Weathertop fight, Arwen stealing Frodo's thunder, Grumpy!Elrond, stupid Troll and endless crumbling staircase in Moria, overly-dark Lórien and Galadriel's corny mind-speak. And lots of overlong ugly scenes with Saruman's orcs.
And then we had Amon Hen which was a mixed bag of great and awful. And the awful was again about Frodo: they made him see Aragorn and his cousins(!) sacrifice themselves for his mission before his very eyes, and yet Frodo's reactions were left as in the book, where he was only angsting over his choice, and had no idea about the Company being in mortal danger. It left him looking incredibly selfish in the movie, and his last remark to Sam: "Aragorn will look after them" sounded outright derisive. This change still makes me grind my teeth in outrage, and for that reason I can't enjoy otherwise brilliant ending of FotR.
FotR SEE redressed a lot here, especially with giving Frodo and other hobbits more character development, and restoring Lórien to its glory. And fleshing out Aragorn's character.
And I don’t want to even start on RotK, which was such an uneven mix of brilliant and awful, and was much more dragging in the middle than TTT, by the way. When I saw it in theater I even found myself looking at my watch after the 1st hour, which never happened to me with LotR movies before. It wasn’t put together well, had some awful cuts, but the worst part for me was the portrayal of Gondor. Rohirrim were so lucky with PJ, but Gondorians fared badly with him.

RotK EE added more insult to the misery and actually made a worse movie for me than the theatrical version. It added some horrifying moments of our heroes behaving like thugs, added gratuitous fight scenes and while there were some good additions (Pippin and Faramir, for example), they were outweighed by the bad.
But TTT, especially after FotR, felt like a great improvement on all character development fronts (except Gimli

And the real discovery was the treatment of Rohan, which was the most boring part of the book for me. And I could never get through Helm's Deep chapter without skipping a lot. But TTT movie made me love and appreciate this part of the story.
Also, I liked how this epic tapestry of different threads was woven together, under the symbol of Estel. That was the main idea of TTT for me: the characters find Estel by the end and brace for the final battle in RotK. But the brilliance of the ending, as I saw it, was the sad irony of Gollum heading down the path of betrayal while everyone else was cheering up. And the hint that the real, the most important, battle is fought in his, and Frodo’s, soul, and that the Ring is still winning. Such a great inverse and a stab in the gut amidst all the celebrations and rousing speeches. And the final shot of Mordor. And the incredible Gollum’s song – which is Frodo’s song as well. Ah. What an excellent, painful ending.
Now to the things that bug me in TTT:
- Most of the Gimli’s verbal jokes.
- Grishnak being made into a buffoon trying to eat hobbits. Overlong scene of him coming after them.
- Merry and Pip still acting like clowns sometimes (thankfully, not as much as in FotR).
- Théoden’s exorsism,
- Overlong Rohan introduction and set up in TTT EE. TTT EE is a mixed bag, and my ideal TTT would be keeping all the hobbits and Faramir EE scenes while dropping the Rohan ones, leaving the best of them (Theodred plot, Éowyn dirge etc.) as DVD extras, but not a part of the movie proper.
- Muddled war logic of Aragorn and Gandalf, urging Théoden to make decisions harmful for Rohan.
- Reluctant Ents having to be fooled by Hobbits.
- Faramir being replaced by Filmamir. Even though I came to appreciate and understand Filmamir, I still miss Faramir.
- Frodo and Sam hiding beneath the cloak in front of Black Gates was silly.
- A tad too many shots of scared Rohan women and children in Helm’s Deep.
So I see flaws, but they don’t bug me that much, I guess, as flaws in FotR and RotK. And it is outweighed by the rest for me.
Now to address the common complaints about TTT:
Dive from the cliff – it’s just a 1-minute distraction, and nothing bad or offensive for our characters happens there. I’m cool about it. And jokes on Arwen-the-horse and Legolas-the-giver-of-EvenStar were PJ-funny.
Elves in Helm’s Deep – brilliant addition, making perfect sense within the context of the movie, playing on the theme of Estel for Elves. It is a replay of the Last Alliance, but this time Elves stand by Isildur’s Heir. Elves bearing a message from Elrond ties in with him fighting in the Last Alliance, and with him reforging Narsil and also coming under Aragorn’s banner, and accepting Arwen’s fate (which will come in RotK).
Galadriel’s recap: same thing as above. Estel for Elves. Reflection on Elves’ fate in ME, and the part they are ready to play in the War of the Ring and in the future of ME (see Arwen).
Arwen’s leaving: externalizing her internal conflict in the book. Also, she symbolically gave her Estel away to Aragorn, in FotR, and was left without (reprised by Elrond in RotK).
Osgiliath. I consider it one of the best moments in the movie, one of the most brilliant additions by PJ (nod to Voronwë). Brilliant portrayal of despair and of falling apart under Dark Lord’s pressure, both for Frodo, and for Gondor’s spirit. Staged against a backdrop of a destroyed city, of the very sky falling on our heroes – great symbolism of what’s going on within our heroes’ souls.
Frodo is *not* giving the Ring to the Nazgûl. Frodo was doing there what he was always doing since the beginning of FotR: he’s spacing out in the proximity of Nazgûl. Closeness of Nazgûl makes the Ring very strong, and it starts overcoming Frodo, the desire to put it on becomes unbearable. Every time it happened before Sam had to interfere to stop Frodo. Same thing here: Frodo and Sam actions are totally consistent within the movie context. But here it is especially bad because it’s close to Mordor, and Nazgûl here are much stronger. We have here the finest acting by EW, and scene itself is incredibly powerful in conveying the unbearable burden of the Ring. And note how after Sam interferes, Frodo comes back to his senses. *By himself*. Contrast it with Sméagol fighting Déagol. And yes – with Boromir fighting Frodo in the end of FotR. Those guys couldn’t stop by themselves. Frodo could. As he’ll stop himself in RotK, with Gollum after Shelob’s Lair.
And now we come to the burning question of why Filmamir lets Frodo go after seeing this spectacle with Nazgûl. And the answer is very simple: see above. Filmamir looks at Frodo overcome by the Ring, and sees Boromir. And finally understands what the Ring has done to his beloved brother. Frodo provides the handy illustration. Boromir swore himself to the mission but because of the Ring he betrayed the mission and attacked his comrade. That’s what Frodo almost does here - *almost*, because unlike Boromir, he overcomes it, with help of Sam, while still under the Ring. “The Ring drove your brother mad” – shouts Sam, and the next frame is Frodo going mad. And what happens next makes Sam’s words sink in to Filmamir.
He understands that the Ring is truly terrible. He’s horrified by his brother’s fate. He’s ready to risk his life to prevent this happening with his father, with people of Gondor. And, listening to Sam’s speech, he regains his own Estel, and sees that the hobbits mission, while looking impossible, is the only hope left to get rid of this Evil.
Filmamir makes his decision not because he believes in Gandalf and in doing right things more than he believes in the absolute priority of Gondor interests. He makes it out of love for his brother and father, and of Gondor. Still noble, but I still prefer Book!Faramir. And we are shown limitations of Filmamir, in his cruel treatment of Gollum, in failing to convey that Gollum should be thankful to Frodo for saving his life. And cruelty of Filmamir, instead of rudeness of Sam, becomes Gollum’s breaking point. Sad, but consistent with Filmamir portrayal. Sigh.